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《幸福,从接纳开始》
亲爱的朋友们,带上《幸福,从接纳开始》这本书,与更多爱学习的爸爸妈妈一起,开启一段温暖的阅读之旅吧!
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地点:武汉·徐东中铁科技大厦502
时间:2025年3月27日(周四)上午9:30—11:30
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往期回顾:
第一章:接纳是什么?
认清他本来的样子,能够分离与独立,
更客观地看待对方与自己,统整地看待。
What is acceptance?
Acceptance is getting a clear understanding of a man essentially.
It can separate from a man and be independent of a man.
It looks upon the other person involved and oneself objectively and wholly.
第二章 世界上没有不好的人,只有不被爱的人
我要接纳每一个人,
我要学会去爱他们,
因为我相信:
别人抱怨我,只代表他期待我能为他做什么,
别人攻击我,只代表我给他的爱不够;
别人如果在我面前表现出悲伤,只代表他需要我的力量。
我要学会增加我的爱。
第三章 如果爱没有增加,事情不会有任何的改变
If the love is not added, thing won’t be changed in any case.
爱一直在决定着我们的生活。
活在自爱世界里的人,大部分是基于安全感与价值感做决策,背后是控制和证明。其人生不是控制就是证明。
活在他爱世界里的人,大部分是基于接纳、欣赏与自由做决策,背后是给予和自信。其人生注定是富足的。
Love determines our life always.
The person who lives in the world of loving himself make decisions based on acquiring sense of safety and sense of value in most time.
There exists controlling and demonstration behind its back.
The life of the person is either controlling or demonstrating.
The person who lives in the world of loving others make decisions based on acceptance, appreciating and freedom in most time.
There exists providing and self-confidence.
The life of the person destines to be rich and abundant.
4. 花不开,蜜蜂不会来 -- 价值法则
Bees won't come if the flower does not bloom. -- Value rule
积累价值,耐心等候。看看自己有什么价值,会创造什么价值,那么你就会吸引跟价值相关的人和事物出现在你的生命里。
You need to accumulate values and wait with patience.
See what value you have and what value you will create, then you will attract the value-related persons and things appearing in your life.
5. 内在拥有,外在成为
Only if you have owned something internally then you become the person owning that thing externally.
竹子从破土而出的那一刻它就快速地长高,但长到一定高度就不再长了,因为底蕴不够,外在的结果是内在的呈现。
The bamboo grew fast from the moment it came out from soil and it stopped growing when it grew up to a certain height.
The reason was it lacked something in the base and the external result was the demonstration from the inner.
第六章:放下不代表软弱,而是爱的等级比较高
Letting go doesn’t mean weakness but higher-level love.
“放不下”的背后有害怕,当一个人觉得“非什么不可”的时候,人生就会痛苦,看不到有更多的可能性。
There is fear behind "not letting go". When a person feels "he must do something", he gets pain in his lifetime and cannot see more possibilities.
第七章: 熟悉产生抗拒,陌生产生吸引力
Familiarity generates resistance while unfamiliarity generates attraction.
第八章 跟你身边的那个人相处好,就能跟全世界相处好
You can get along with the whole world if you get along with the person by your side.
第九章 允许别人对自己有误解
Permit other people to misunderstand oneself.
我欣赏我自己,我接纳我自己,我让自己越来越好,我允许你暂时看我不够好,不过我想告诉你,我会越来越好。
I appreciate myself.
I accept myself.
I let myself become better and better.
I permit you to feel me not good enough temporarily, but I want to tell you that I will become better and better.
第十章 所有的伤害都来自误解
第十一章 关注事情为了控制,关注心情是为了爱
Paying close attention to affair is in order to control something and paying close attention to mood is for love.
关注事情背后的心态:害怕失去,缺乏自信,活在有条件的爱里,爱变成了压力和负担,错误地理解了爱。
关注心情背后的力量:对自己有信心,活出太阳的品质,能给予充足,信任,无条件的爱。
The mentalities behind paying close attention to affairs are afraid of losing something, short of self-confidence, living in conditional love, turning love into pressure and burden, understanding love wrongly.
The power behind paying close attention to mood are being self-confident, living with the quality of sun, being capable of giving abundant trustful and unconditional love.
The direction of attention generates consequences.
There is scotoma as long as there is .
当父母开始关注孩子的坏行为,他们就会看到一个坏孩子。
当父母开始关注孩子的好行为,他们就会看到一个卓越的孩子。
Parents will see a bad child when they begin to pay close attention to the bad behavior of the child.
But on the contrary, parents will see a remarkable child when they begin to pay close attention to the good behavior of the child.
13. 爱一直都在,但有时候我们会看不见
Love is always there, but we cannot see it sometimes.
很多人在到处寻找爱,但并不知道他从来不缺爱,甚至忘记自己就是爱。
Many people are looking for love everywhere, but they don’t know they never lack love, and they even forget they are love themselves.
14. 真诚的风险永远都是最小的
The risk of empressement is the smallest forever.
没有一个人能够永远欺骗所有人。
No one can cheat all the world forever.
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15. 无知的代价永远都是最贵的
The price of ignorance is the most expensive forever.
上天让我们去经历、去学习、去接受教育也是爱我们的方式之一,如果听不到,就会为此买单。
That God let us to experience something, to study something, to receive education is one of the ways loving us. You will pay for it if you cannot hear it.
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16. 一个人的格局被放大了就永远都回不到原来的小地方
Once one’s pattern is enlarged it will not return to the primary small place forever.
格局就是我们的有限,当我们的有限被拓展后,我们的格局就被拓展了。
Pattern is our limit. After our limit is developed, our pattern is developed.
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17. 轻轻推动你圈子的边缘,看看是否有空间容纳那些被排除在外的人
Push gently the margin of your social circle to see whether there is space to accommodate those people excluded.
界线是用来划分空间的,界线越多,空间就越窄。一个西瓜被切的份数越多,每份就越小。
Boundary line is used to divide space. More the boundary lines are, narrower the space is. More copies a watermelon is segmented, the smaller each copy is.
20. 永远都不要害怕一无所有
Never be afraid of having nothing at all forever.
恐惧最根本的原因是我们看不到自己已经拥有的。
The root cause of fear is we cannot see what we already have.
22. 运用射箭原理来实现人生的任何目标
Use archery principle to achieve any goal of your life.
在最短的时间内让孩子走最多的弯路,这就是最简单的教育方式。
The simplest education mode is to let child go maximum crooked road in minimum time.
23. 过程无法超越,经历无法代替
The process cannot be transcend. And the experience cannot be replaced.
上帝造物,让蝴蝶经历破蛹,春蚕经历破蛹,螃蟹脱几次壳才能长大。人的成长也必须不断地冲破瓶颈,才能长大,否则只能原地踏步。
God creates things, let butterfly experience emerge from chrysalid, the same as silkworm, let crab moult its shell several times to grow up. So man must unceasingly break through barriers to grow, otherwise he can but mark time.
24. 养鱼就是要养水,养人就是要养空气
The key factor of Pisciculture is fostering the water. And the key factor of nurturing and raising child is maintaining good air.
植物的环境叫气候,鱼的环境叫水质,人的环境叫气场。家庭环境造就家庭气场。家族环境造就家族气场。
The environment of plant is called climate.
The environment of fish is called water quality.
The environment of man is called mental aura.
Family environment forms family mental aura.
Extended family environment forms extended family mental aura.
25. 凡是帮助别人会受伤的,是因为背后是求回报
All the situations that persons get hurt after helping others are because they expect something in return behind their back.
给予不要求回报的,一生都不会受伤。
Those who giving others things without expecting anything in return won’t be hurt all their lives.
终结篇:
30. 这个世界上没有你想要的玫瑰园,真正的玫瑰园是需要你亲手去栽种的
There is no wanted rose garden in the world. The genuine rose garden needs you to plant by yourself.
你能够建多大的玫瑰园就看你能够创造什么样的价值,你拥有什么价值,能够吸引什么样的人来到你的身边。
How large the rose garden you can construct depends on what value you can create.
What value you possess can attract what people coming to your side.
第二期:
1.接纳是什么?认清他本来的样子,能够分离与独立,更客观地看待对方与自己,统整地看待。
What is acceptance?
Acceptance is getting a clear understanding of a man essentially.
It can separate from a man and be independent of a man.
It looks upon the other person involved and oneself objectively and wholly.
2. 世界上没有不好的人,只有不被爱的人
There is no bad person in the world. Only the person not loved exists.
如果你看对方越来越不好,通常都是因为对方已经越来越缺乏来自你的爱了。
If you find the other person involved becoming worse and worse, which is because he is lacking the love from you more and more.
第三章 如果爱没有增加,事情不会有任何的改变 If the love is not added, thing won’t be changed in any case.
爱一直在决定着我们的生活。
活在自爱世界里的人,大部分是基于安全感与价值感做决策,背后是控制和证明。其人生不是控制就是证明。
活在他爱世界里的人,大部分是基于接纳、欣赏与自由做决策,背后是给予和自信。其人生注定是富足的。
Love determines our life always.
The person who lives in the world of loving himself make decisions based on acquiring sense of safety and sense of value in most time.
There exists controlling and demonstration behind its back.
The life of the person is either controlling or demonstrating.
The person who lives in the world of loving others make decisions based on acceptance, appreciating and freedom in most time.
There exists providing and self-confidence.
The life of the person destines to be rich and abundant.
4. 花不开,蜜蜂不会来 -- 价值法则
Bees won't come if the flower does not bloom. -- Value rule
积累价值,耐心等候。看看自己有什么价值,会创造什么价值,那么你就会吸引跟价值相关的人和事物出现在你的生命里。
You need to accumulate values and wait with patience.
See what value you have and what value you will create, then you will attract the value-related persons and things appearing in your life.
第五章. 内在拥有,外在成为
Only if you have owned something internally then you become the person owning that thing externally.
竹子从破土而出的那一刻它就快速地长高,但长到一定高度就不再长了,因为底蕴不够,外在的结果是内在的呈现。
The bamboo grew fast from the moment it came out from soil and it stopped growing when it grew up to a certain height.
The reason was it lacked something in the base and the external result was the demonstration from the inner.
第六章:放下不代表软弱,而是爱的等级比较高
Letting go doesn’t mean weakness but higher-level love.
“放不下”的背后有害怕,当一个人觉得“非什么不可”的时候,人生就会痛苦,看不到有更多的可能性。
There is fear behind "not letting go". When a person feels "he must do something", he gets pain in his lifetime and cannot see more possibilities.
第七章 熟悉产生抗拒,陌生产生吸引力
Familiarity generates resistance while unfamiliarity generates attraction.
第八章 跟你身边的那个人相处好,就能跟全世界相处好You can get along with the whole world if you get along with the person by your side.
第九章 允许别人对自己有误解
Permit other people to misunderstand oneself.
我欣赏我自己,我接纳我自己,我让自己越来越好,我允许你暂时看我不够好,不过我想告诉你,我会越来越好。
I appreciate myself.
I accept myself.
I let myself become better and better.
I permit you to feel me not good enough temporarily, but I want to tell you that I will become better and better.
第十章 所有的伤害都来自误解……
跟你身边的那个人相处好,就能跟全世界相处好
You can get along with the whole world if you get along with the person by your side.

第一章
2025-3-20
1.接纳是什么?认清他本来的样子,能够分离与独立,更客观地看待对方与自己,统整地看待。
What is acceptance?
Acceptance is getting a clear understanding of a man essentially.
It can separate from a man and be independent of a man.
It looks upon the other person involved and oneself objectively and wholly.
本期预告:2025-3-27
《幸福从接纳开始》随机章节